Yes, it is true. We are poor, miserable sinners. And since this is true, it is also true and necessary that we confess our sins. Our Lord instructs us to confess our sins of thought, word and deed, both sins we know we commit, and the sins we don’t; both sins we intentionally commit and sins unintentional.
What is confession? Well, it has two parts: first that we confess and second that we receive absolution, which is the forgiveness of sins proclaimed by the pastor as if by God Himself. And we must not doubt, but believe firmly that our sins are truly forgiven by God in heaven.
Sometimes folks get hung up on the idea of a pastor saying, “I forgive you all your sins…“, but there is no reason for concern. The pastor is only speaking the words that Christ the Lord has already said and has authorized His Church to say. The reason the pastor says, “I forgive you...” is for your conscience, so that you know for certain that your sins are forgiven because God is speaking through the pastor directly to you. Further, the authority for the Church to forgive sins (and to withhold forgiveness) is given by Christ Himself in the Scripture. For example, in John 20, Jesus says, “if you forgive the sins of anyone, they are forgiven them. If you do not forgive the sins, they are not forgiven.” This is Jesus’ sharing of this important authority with His holy church.
Lutherans also offer private confession and absolution, especially for those poor souls whose consciences are heavily burdened on account of sin and need special attention. Should you wish to take advantage of private confession and absolution with the pastor, please contact the church.